Archive for April, 2009

Anxiety Attack Advice

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

For those who have experienced a panic or anxiety disorder at some point in their lives, the effect can be devastating. The symptoms of a panic attack are especially troubling as they can often mimic a heart attack or make the person believe they are dying.

Symptoms such as heart racing, palpitations, shakiness, dizziness, nausea and overwhelming terror often accompany a panic attack. These symptoms will often paralyze the person experiencing them and make them believe they are going crazy. Often, the person becomes more and more withdrawn because of the fear of being in public when an attack happens.

Others experience generalized anxiety which causes them to fear many things and worry about various circumstances of life. Some of the symptoms of anxiety disorders are: muscle aches and pains, irritability, feelings of dread, fear of losing control, difficulty concentrating, tiring easily, anxious thoughts, jumpiness and restlessness.

Thankfully, these disorders are completely curable if handled correctly with the proper tools. Many sufferers waste time and money chasing false claims. There are wonderful resources out there that can help solve the problem quickly such as PANIC ATTACKS and ANXIETY ATTACKS

While many people who have panic and anxiety do have an emotional component, one cannot overlook the possible physical causes such as thyroid issues, mitral valve prolapse and other medical conditions that can mimic some of the symptoms of these disorders. These should always be investigated by a doctor who specializes in these areas.

Cutting out caffeine and nicotine, as well as exercise and meditation can also be very effective in staving off anxiety and panic attacks. Of course there are also several types of prescription medications and herbal remedies that can be helpful in the treatment of anxiety and panic disorders. With effort and faith in the process, a person can overcome panic and anxiety and lead a normal, happy life.

Therapy is a key component of treatment for anxiety disorder. Many studies show that therapy is as effective as medication for most people. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is one type of therapy that is very helpful in the treatment of anxiety disorders.

Women and men who experience panic and anxiety attacks may have a diimished quality of life. At every turn, they are afraid of experiencing the terrifying symptoms of an attack as well as the possible embarrassment of having an attack in public where others can see.

There is no need for someone who is having panic or anxiety attacks to suffer alone. There are resources if the person will just grab on to them. There is no need to suffer in silence or alone. It should not be just about surviving panic and anxiety attacks, but about thriving in your life.

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Duality and Distribution of Bible Prophecy

Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

People will often ask why so many prophecies are dual? It is: because making them dual causes a more profound understanding of either the message to be retained or the lesson to be learned. In addition, it is easier to anticipate the fulfillment of a prophecy during our time when you see an example of it in history.

Detailed prophecy generally has to be absorbed by a prophet and passed on to its intended audience. The Prophet Ezekiel ate a book of prophecy (Ezekiel 2:8-Ezekiel 3:3). The Prophet John also ate a book of prophecy (Revelation 10:1-11). The books were sweet in their mouths. But John’s book turned to bitterness when it reached the stomach. This exemplifies the fact that learning what will happen before it happens is fascinating and generally beneficial; however, there are negatives. Most likely, what a real prophet has to say will almost never be politically correct. A true prophet will not always have pleasant things to predict, unlike a fortune teller who will predict just about anything to keep her clients happy.

Prophecies can show us the ultimate in rewards that are gained after endurance, overcoming, and faithfulness. This perspective is, for the greater part, timeless. Even though prophecy by its meaning is predictive, prophecy without the relevant imperatives of character-building is like a play without a moral or a story without a point.

Judas is the one who betrayed Jesus for money (Matthew 26:15-16). It would have been better for Judas if he had never been born (Mark 14:21). Afterwards, Judas took a dive from a high place with a fastener around his neck, exploding at the bottom with his bowels gushing out (Matthew 27:3-5, Acts 1:16-18). So, one twelfth of the disciples of Christ were replaced. Matthias replaced unfaithful Judas (Acts 1:25-26). By the same token, one twelfth of the potential 144,000 of Revelation chapter 7 will be replaced. The tribe of Dan (that could have had a population of 12,000) will be omitted. To make up the difference, Joseph will be added, resulting in Joseph and his son occupying two tribal positions instead of one (Revelation 7:4-8). One of the meanings of the word “Joseph” is “addition”.

Herod killed James and captured Peter because it pleased the members of the standard religion, consisting of, at that time, the non-Messianic Jews (Acts 12:1-3). Just as faithful Christians were threatened with death by the standard religion during the first century, and a different form of the standard religion during the dark ages, faithful Christians will be threatened with death by the standard religion at the end of man’s rule (John 16:2, Revelation 17:6). God’s people are told to come out of Babylon (Revelation 18:4). One mark of false prophets and false teachers is their willingness to try to make merchandise of God’s people (II Peter 2:1-3). Zechariah looked forward to a time during which there would be the absence of the Canaanite (Zechariah 14:21). The Hebrew for Canaanite is from “Chenaanee”, meaning merchant. Canaanite is a word for merchant just as Caldean is a word for astrologer. John wrote of a time in which merchants will weep and mourn (Revelation 18:11) all because Babylon will have been ruined (Revelation 18:2).

Sodom is symbolic of extreme wickedness (Genesis 13:13). Egypt, which had enslaved Israel (Exodus 1:13-14), is a symbol of sin. Old Jerusalem at the end of the age of man’s rule will be a combination of Sodom and Egypt, extreme wickedness and enslaving sin (Revelation 11:8). Just as Egypt is a type of sin, Pharaoh is a type of Satan. Pharaoh did not want to let the people of God escape from Egypt, the land of sin. By the same token Satan does not want to let the people of God escape from sin during the end time. Satan will have great wrath, knowing that his time is short (Revelation 12:12). And just as Moses and Aaron were two witnesses to truth as the Children of Israel were led out of Egypt, so also there will be two witnesses during the end time. There will be two witnesses prophesying three and a half years (forty-two months) (Revelation chapter 11). Just as Moses and Aaron were instrumental in seeing to it that the Children of Israel escaped from Egypt, the two witnesses will be instrumental in seeing to it that the people of God escape from sin and from Babylon.

Just as Paul was overcoming (fighting the good fight), finishing the course (enduring to the end), and keeping the faith (II Timothy 4:7), the final headquarters team ruling with the Son of man will have been overcoming (I John 5:4-5, Revelation 2:26), enduring to the end (Matthew 10:22, James 1:12) and remaining faithful (Revelation 2:10, Revelation 17:14). The faithful ones will have been mindful of a future reward and have embraced the promises (Hebrews 11:13-14). Both Isaiah and Paul remind us of a future time of ultimate rewards, which cannot be totally understood by the mind of man, a time so magnificent that eye has not seen and ear has not heard what God has prepared for those who love him and wait for him (Isaiah 64:4, I Corinthians 2:9).

While many will claim that the original creation of the earth happened 6000 years ago (an absurdity of mammoth proportions), it is a fact that humans were created about 6000 years ago. We have the genealogy all the way back to Adam. It is around 6000 years into the past. The time is a rough estimate because, although Genesis and other books of the Bible provide us with genealogies and how old a man was when his son was born, there is the problem of factoring in fractions of years.

For example, Abraham was reported as being 100 years old when his son Isaac was born to him (Genesis 21:5). However, what does it mean that Abraham was 100 years old? It means he was past his one-hundredth birthday. How far was he past it? We don’t know. He may have been 100 years and 1 month old. He may have been 100 years and 5 months old. He may have been 100 years and 11 months old. The same is true of many who are listed in the genealogies. And this is the reason the time of the creation of Adam cannot be pinpointed with great accuracy. But we do know it was around 6000 years ago.

In order to reconcile the fact of the age of the universe (about 13.5 billion years) and the age of man (around 6000 years) go to Gap Theory.
Many Bible scholars will estimate it to be just under 6000 years because of the theory of the Sabbath of millenniums. Just as the re-creation took six days and the seventh was the day God rested, leaving us an example that we should also rest on the seventh day – so also there is six 1000 periods of time that Satan does his dirty work But the seventh 1000 year period will be a forced rest for Satan (Revelation 20:2,3,7). Satan will be put into the abyss for 1000 years and then released. He will be forced to rest during that last 1000 years.

Just as the prophet Elijah pointed people to the true God during the time of Jezebel and King Ahab, there will be a modern day Elijah to point people to the true God in today’s world, destroying the influence of the end-time Jezebel.

For more information about the prophet Elijah, go to 4 Elijahs.

“All scripture is given by inspiration of God and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: that the man of God may be fit, thoroughly furnished unto all good works” (2 Timothy 3:16-17).

-wilyelder

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Sharing the Bill while on a Singles Date

Monday, April 27th, 2009

Who should pay the bill?

After 10 years of being single, I have started dating a gentlemen who is financially secure and definitely making more money than me. I need advice on how to handle paying the tab when we go out. I feel uncomfortable letting him pay for everything. However, if I insist on paying my half, or even paying for the whole bill, I will have to limit the activities that we do together. How do I politely decline functions that I feel I cannot afford, without appearing uninterested in being with him? Should I discuss this with him? If so, how do I do that without making it appear as if I want him to pay for it? –labottor Being single for 10 years, I met a woman who is financially secure and who makes a very nice living. Please explain how to pay the bill at dinner or other venues. I cannot afford to constantly pay both bills for the activities we do together. Should I say no to dates if I cannot afford spending money on both of us? Should I tell her my financial situation? I don’t want to turn her off from me because of my income. Help! –Mike

Here’s some advice that’s free. Yes, level with the gentleman about your money concerns, but first make sure you understand their origins. Does your discomfort stem from worry that if he pays on the one level you’ll be required to “pay” on another? Or are you uncomfortable with being cast in the traditional woman’s role? Or do you simply like to feel that everything is equitable? I guess you would like some free advice. I would say, yes, tell her about the issues and maybe try to find some less expensive dates. You have to be honest with yourself and her. If she does not accept your financial situation, then ultimately, she does not care about you (sorry to say).

Once you examine where you’re at on this issue, initiate an honest, non-threatening cash-oriented talk. Have some possible solutions in mind: You let him treat you to expensive functions while he lets you treat him to home-cooked dinners, movie dates, etc. Plus, you can buy him little treats on occasion: a CD you know he’d like, his favorite author’s new book (out in paperback), etc. In addition, do not be afraid to have a heart to heart talk with her. I think most women will respect your honesty more than deep pockets. Perhaps treat her to more meaningful home cooked meals or movies at home with candle light? Plus, you can get her little treats on occasion such as flowers or even pick your own roses.

While neither of you want to feel that the monetary balance must be tit for tat, you should be able to compromise on a fluid, comfortable way to handle the “who pays, when and for what?” hurdle — one that all couples have to get over at some time or another.

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Get Useful Advice About Religious Literature

Sunday, April 26th, 2009

SCIENTIFIC PROOF THAT (GOD THE HOLY) SPIRIT EXISTS BY SIMON RICHARD LEE
ABOUT THE BOOK
Scientific Proof that (God the Holy) Spirit Exists is a brilliant mixture of both religious and scientific writing. It is developed in three parts, in a clear and discursive way.

In the first part, a fascinating theory about Spiritual Energy is provided. The starting point is that Spiritual Energy =mc2, just like physical energy. Its ‘sevenfold nature’ in the Bible and other Holy Books, occurs in trees, fountains and cubes. The Sevenfold ‘Holy’ Spirit of God exactly occupies the ‘extra seven dimensions of the Universe’ of the latest “string theories” of science.

He produces at least eight equally fascinating scientific theories about Spirit, comprising overall his (natural) science of the Holy Spirit.

These theories may all be verified in 2009 if the new Large Hadron Accelerator at CERN, Geneva detects that there are more than three dimensions of space.

In the second part, Simon Lee makes his own very special translation of some chapters of the Holy Books, commenting on them in a stimulating and personal way.

In the third part the problems related to the cashless system are explained.

The very last part of the book handles a new theory of - and cures for - all mental illnesses. In his fresh but rigorous style, the author proposes two new non chemical therapies.

This book is a journey into different worlds, where (natural) science and religion meet and walk side by side.

AUTHOR’s COMMENTS: - “This book is a complete self contained system”

“This revolutionary, challenging online book is powerful, very powerful reading, about life at this start of the 21st Century - with science, natural science, science and technology and the overall philosophy of science - “scientifici” - having this century seemed to very much overshadow - even disenfranchise - the bible, other Holy Books, religion, faith and spirituality. It is then about society, religion and spirituality, and so comes under the ‘religion & spirituality’ shopping category.

Kids talk about God existing or not, and what ‘They’ are like, while atheists demand scientific proof of God’s existence. In this hell raiser of a year of 2009 of an ever looming Second Great Depression, if it is not already here; the eyes of truth say that the Book of Revelation is quite right. As discussed in my own book, 7th Heaven will only come, once God (or is it US?) finally decides it is time to actually abolish ‘the root of all evil’ - money itself, and we all turn to live in a new heavenly society where everything is free - within reason. Indeed heavenly - 7th Heaven!

This radical new ‘the eyes of truth’ approach will definitely appeal to atheists and atheism as it is a spiritual, christian based employment of christianity and its history, and my own extensive but rather ‘alternative’ bible studys and studies.

These will be of particular appeal to USA Christians - the USA Body of Christ - Jesus - that is more deeply far-thinking about science and technology in relation to religion and faith - perhaps than people elsewhere. It used to be that books were the lingua franca but we are at the end of a first decade where they have fallen foul of computers and this Internet bug!

Evolutionary theory can easily be disproved. Nothing caused the incredibly complex constituents of cells to evolve to be that way - they must have been created spontaneously - this ‘principle of irreducible complexity’ is normally cited along with ‘intelligent design’ and the ‘anthropic principle’ as 3 main ways to prove God exists.

My own book goes further. My own book goes the whole hog of metaphysics, and ’system analyses’ the Mind and Holy Spirit of God in a ’scientifici’ way that will appeal even to ’scientifici’.

It argues that the Book of Revelation up to chapter 11 as well as the books of Daniel and 2 Esdras (the so-called Apocalyptic books of the Bible) are all precisely about modern science of the last two centuries. We find ourselves in a ‘Heaven666′ world as in those books, which my own book explores in great depth.

A ‘Heaven overshadowed by 666′ or ‘Heaven 666′ world. Where since 11th September 2001, Heaven seems remote compared to Big Brother of George Orwell’s ‘1984′ - dwarfed by a ‘666′ extent of control that has crept up on everybody with nobody excluded, in the name of ‘Security’ and ‘the War on Terrorism’ - backed by massive ‘Technology’.

My own book ends with tackling the serious modern plagues of domination by money or rather now the total lack of enough, over complex lives with too many choices to stay sane, and so mental illness. It offers tangible solutions to all of these. So overall its aim is to be a ‘the eyes of truth’ - at all costs - book.”

Simon Richard Lee OA, BA, MA, KCC (King’s College, Cambridge, England)
Chartered Computing and Instrument Engineer - CEng MIEE MIET MInstMC

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Simon Richard Lee has also written some extremely moving spiritual poetry (also in hardback), his three inspirational memoirs, and a short career history; as well as editing and producing her book of inspirational memoirs for QT Saunders, a friend. Preview in full or order these books to download or in paperback (poetry also in hardback).

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Practical Suggestions for leading Small Group Bible Study

Saturday, April 25th, 2009

Bible study Small groups are essential part of christian community. Today, almost every church has its small groups. However, it is not at all a newly found concept. Jesus himself had his own small group of 12 people And although he had much larger community of followers, He spent major part of his life with these small group of people.

Leading small groups can be one of the most rewardingexperience of your christian life. You can really influence your group members. Small group setting provides safer and much intimate environment for Christian fellowship and friendship. Today, we are going to discuss practical suggestions to effectively leading small group bible study. You may be leading students, married couples, men, women, teenagers, youth, or any age group, these suggestions can be used. So, here are some of the suggestions for leading a group.

Identify you group. You must know your group members. Introduce new visitors.

Select the topic. According to your group, you can select the topic . Try to maintain the continuity.

Prepare your notes in question - answer format. You must have possible answers ready in your mind. Use other resources like bible commentary, if you need to. Keeping notes is one of the most useful practice you can have, it can be helpful in future as well.

Adopt your own style. Don’t imitate anybody’s style, have your own style of leading.

Ask questions, if the group do not understand, rephrase the question, don’t try to explain everything.

Remember, you are bible study leader, not a preacher. Your goal is to let others talk and share!

Encourage the quiet one, their silence do not mean non-participation. Also, try to manage the dominant members.

If you don’t know the answer of any particular question, acknowledge it. Find the answers and share it next time. Remember, we are all here to learn.

Keep the eye contact. Don’t just concentrate on few members. Occasionally, ask questions to individual.

If the discussion goes side tracked by some question, bring the group back to the main idea. (Use your judgment, if there is an important issue, continue the discussion.)

Appreciate good answers . Everyone likes appreciation.

Be creative, visualize the picture in the passage. Use contemporary examples. Use maps, whiteboards, games, etc.

Don’t go overtime! 25-30 minutes of bible study is perfect. Sometimes, the faces of the members can tell you that its time to wrap up!!! If there is some important theological discussion going on, you can conclude bible study, but continue the discussion, so that those who need to leave can go.

Make sure that you finish with application and conclusion. Spend good amount of time in applying the word. Encourage your group.

I hope that these practical suggestions can help you to effectively lead your bible study group .

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Discover God’s Will for Your Life

Friday, April 24th, 2009

Would you like to know God’s purpose for your life? How to discern God’s will for daily situations ? Here are some of the simple bible based steps to find God’s will and purpose for your life. It provides practical guidelines in discovering God’s will for your life.

We must make Jesus our Lord and be genuinely willing to follow him . (Romans 12:1-2, Mat 6:33) This is the first step. There is no other alternative! We should be willing to respond as God would in any given situation. (Psalm 25:10) We should be humble and willing to learn. (Psalm 25:9) We must spend time in his words daily. This is the most simple and powerful, yet most forgotten fact. Study the bible, not just read it. We should listen to God in prayer (Prov 8:34), not just giving a list of things, we need. So often, we are so much focused on what we need, that we miss what God wants from us!

We should completely rely on God and his plans for our life. (Prov 3:5-6) Someone has said, “How can you make God laugh?”, “Tell him your plans!” It is not to say, that you should not make any plans at all, but to seek his ways first. We should have clean and pure heart. (Psalm 66:18, 1 John 1:9) We should be expectant. God wants to speak to us, so Pay attention!We should fear the Lord, this means hating evil and living God’s way. (Prov 8:13, Prov 9:10), it is harder to do what we hate. Fasting can also immensely help. It helps us to focus our thoughts on God. (Mat 6: 16-18)

These are the basic principles for preparing yourself to see his will for your life. But how about a specific decisions, like career, marriage, finances etc? There are three steps in finding God’s will for a specific decisions.

1) Word of God
2) Circumstances
3) Peace of Mind

You can verify your decision with confirmation of word of God, the circumstances and the inner peace that you may get. Now, I am not saying that God is going to show you, the name of the person you are going to marry, or the name of the company you are going to work with. But, if you sincerely seek his will, he will surely give you assurance about your decisions.

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Read Tips For Flirting in public places

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

Flirting moves are physically not hard to do. It is not hard to look into women eyes or to wink at her. But it is hard to do these “women guy” moves if you have not practiced to do these things before. Master seducers know tips for flirting in every detail. They are seen as a man material instantly in women eyes, rather than friend material. If you don?t know these Crazy tips for flirting then women see you as a friend.

1) Look into her eyes for “TOO LONG”. This is just holding eye contact a little longer than you’d normally would. You don?t have to do it right away when you meet her, but you’d want to do it somewhere in the middle of the conversation. This is good because it shows that you have some confidence and you will have a brief personal moment together.

2) Make rapid decisions. This means that you have ability to make fast and clear decisions. The bottom line here is that making a fast and clear decision is more important than making the perfect decision what you need to consider for longer time. Women need to know that you are the man who can make decisions. This will let her know instantly that you have some quality personality traits inside you, and you can make rapid decisions in the future also.

3) Third tips for flirting is “checking out her body.” This creates good chemistry between you two. What you need to do is to look into her eyes for a moment and then pass your eyes over her body without you being unashamed. She should feel complimented, rather than seen as a piece of meat. She should feel that you give her a look and you make a decision about her looks, but she don?t know exactly what are you thinking. This will create instant sexual tension. Do not do this more than twice during communicating with her.

These were the Three tips for flirting that you can start using right away to get some success with women. I have personally used these Three tips for flirting with all the women and never got a bad look or rejection.

So look into her eyes for “too long”, make decisions fast like a real man. Check out her body like you should and like you are the selector. These three tips for flirting will give women instant signs about your quality personality that she will start to feel attraction if delivered properly. Make things happen and be the

If you start to understand the importance of thes tips for flirting, then you will become better and better over time when applying them. So I suggest you start to learn and practice these tactics more often than you’d usually do. Go out and make things happen and be the guy gets girl type of man.

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How to stop marijuana & never look back

Friday, April 10th, 2009

Along the ignorance of the general public towards pot the pro pot lobbyist are just as ignorant when it comes to pot addiction. If you are trying to quit this addiction and are having problems you understand the truth behind this struggle and how hard it can be especially if you are a long term smoker.

The problem is that people who do not know about pot think that you can become addicted to pot like cigarettes or heroin or cocaine which is not true. The pro pot people believe that it is impossible to become addicted to pot and do their very best to shame those looking to quit for their own ends as they know that you cannot be “dependant” or “physically addicted” on marijuana but end up ignoring the real reason people have a hard time giving up pot.

The real reason most people never stop smoking pot is that they are psychologically addicted to it. The difference is this:

- Dependence is when a person suffers serious withdrawal symptoms when they stop using the drug which in some cases is so severe is can cause sickness and injury
- Psychological addiction is when a person believes they NEED the substance to continue functioning even if they do not.

It all gets mixed up because dependence usually comes with a psychological addiction too and pot does have some mild withdrawals for some people such as insomnia, queasiness, vivid dreams and other but no scientific study has concluded it can be classed as physical addiction.

So what does this mean to you when you are trying to work out stop smoking pot?

Basically it means that you require a change in perspective and a serious amount of introspection into your motives and beliefs around smoking pot. It requires willpower and a commitment to quit only if you can shake the belief that you need it, or it is not that bad, or that it is not the pot it is other things that are making your life problematic.

This is no mean feat because pot addiction is often just a symptom of an underlying personal problem you may not wish to face including:

- Fear
- Abuse
- Depression
- Social acceptance
- and more …

quit smoking weed is more about taking charge of your life rather than letting it drift along in a smoky haze and only starts when you can be completely truthful with yourself about the reasons underlying your drug abuse, the excuses you make that stop you successfully giving up pot and the key motivation you need that becomes stronger than any urge to continue smoking that emerges.

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