Freedom

Everyone looks for a special personalised gift for their favourite person at Christmas time. Usual favourites are monogrammed stuff like cufflinks and bathrobes as well as pen sets and diaries. These are all fine but they do not last and all will be consigned to a drawer of the waste bin within a few years. To obtain the ultimate gift which will last you need personalised number plates. These can signify a name, initials or nickname but needs to be something that will not change in the future like car type. They can be transferred from the current car to next one in finitum so they will last forever. The exception could be single ladies who could change their initials upon marrying.

One of the major problems in the field of behavior science is the problem of people feeling they have no apparent purpose in their lives. Many in today’s world feel that they are trapped in an existence that offers little in the way of inspiration or guidance or pragmatic instruction for life improvement. This situation has been amplified by the Depression that has descended upon the world.

“If in this life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men most miserable” (1 Cor 15:19).

General Douglas MacArthur (one of the generals who helped to achieve victory in World War II) said in a speech after the Japanese surrender: “We have had our last chance. If we cannot devise some greater and equitable system, our Armageddon will be at our door. The problem basically is theological and involves a spiritual recrudescence, an improvement [in] human character that will synchronize with our almost matchless advances in science, art, literature and all material and cultural developments of the past two thousand years. It must be of the spirit if we are to save the flesh.” It can only be of the spirit if we are to save the flesh. The flesh being saved will be the human trainees left over from the tribulation.

Christ spoke of the same problem almost twenty centuries ago. Focusing on the last days, he said, “…except those days should be shortened, there should no flesh be saved…” (Matthew 24:22). Christ predicted a time when all life could be erased from the face of this planet (the time period in which we now live). “[Seeing] then [that] all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought you to be in [all] holy conversation and godliness” (2 Peter 3:11).
In harmony with God’s time table, there will be multiple resurrections from the dead (John 5:28-29). There are some false teachers who teach there is no resurrection of the dead (1 Corinthians 15:12).

At the last trumpet the dead in Christ will be raised up at the first resurrection into bodies that do not die (1 Corinthians 15:52-54). Those in the first resurrection will not experience the second death. They will rule with Christ for 1000 years (Revelation 20:6). Many coming up in the second and third resurrections might be surprised to see that they will be judged by their works (Revelation 20:12 and Revelation 20:13).

Which Works?

God will, in time, take away all rebellion to him from the face of the earth. His Son, Christ will take back the planet by force (Revelation 19:11-13) and force peace upon the earth. He will be called Wonderful, Counselor, The mighty God, the everlasting Father, and the Prince of peace (Isaiah 9:6). Of the increase of his government there will be no end (verse 7). Individuals who overcome will be given a white stone, awarded to them by Jesus Christ himself. That stone will have the person’s new name, which will be unique in the entire universe. And no one will know the name except the one who receives the stone (Revelation 2:17).

What God has for his people is much more than a repair job to return to an Eden-like environment. What he has planned transcends all that has ever been. The next major positive event for the universe is the kingdom of God coming to this planet, which is the reason we should pray “…thy Kingdom come.”

The kingdoms of this world will be forced to become the kingdoms of our Lord and of his Christ (Revelation 11:15). The New Jerusalem will come down to this earth and God will tabernacle with his people (Revelation 21:2-3). There will be no more death, sorrow, tears, or pain (verse 4).

“Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom” (Luke 12:32).

“In the last days it will come to pass, [that] the mountain of the LORD’s house will be established in the top of the mountains, and shall be exalted above the hills. And all nations shall flow into it” (Isaiah 2:2, Micah 4:1).

“And many nations shall come, and say, Come, and let us go up to the mountain of the LORD, and to the house of the God of Jacob; and he will teach us of his ways, and we will walk in his paths: for the law shall go forth of Zion, and the word of the LORD from Jerusalem” (Isaiah 2:3 and Micah 4:2).

“And he shall judge among the nations, and shall rebuke strong nations afar off; and they shall beat their swords into plowshares, and their spears into pruning hooks. Nation shall not lift up sword against nation neither shall they learn war any more” (Isaiah 2:4 and Micah 4:3).

“And they shall sit every man under his vine and under his fig tree; and none shall make them afraid: for the mouth of the LORD of hosts has spoken it” (Micah 4:4).

-wilyelder

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With the amount of singles on Myspace and Facebook these days, finding a girlfriend is fast becoming a reason to sign up. They are free, unlike online dating sites and there is an endless array of beautiful girls to choose from. However, you do need to make sure that your profile is “optimized” before you message anybody with a hope of getting a meeting. Follow these tips for the best possible chance.

1. Check through your profile for any of those silly zombie applications, hugs, pokes or kisses. Do real men really do any of this? Do they have the time?

2. Erase all negative wall posts. Especially if you recently have threats from your friends because you jumped the cab leaving them with the bill. To be good at facebook flirting you have to have only positive things on your profile.

3. This is an important one. If you have female friends…and hopefully you will have, then send them a nice complimentary message. Hopefully they will reply with something like “hey good to hear from you, maybe we should meet up for a coffee next week?” You need to collect as many of these on your wall as possible, it is called SOCIAL PROOF and it is extremely powerful stuff!

4. Close your profile to random access. If a girl you have just messaged can see your entire profile without adding you as a friend then it defeats the object. Your initial goal should be for her to add you.

5. Make sure your profile image is a good one. Afterall, it is the first thing she is going to look at. If you have a picture where you are with a nice looking girl, smiling at you then this is perfect. Otherwise one where you are next to somebody famous would be a good conversation starter. After that, any interesting hobby photos to make you look unique.

6. Inside your profile you should have no more than 20 photos. You do not want to look like you spend all your life online. Make sure your photos are a cool array of what was listed above, maybe with 1 with a cute animal and 1 where your face is shown.

7. Now you are ready to message some hot girls and really get down to facebook flirting. Find a few you like, copy and paste the same message to them all. One of my more successful openers is “hey I thought it was you, I had to leave early the other night…if you want your belt back, you know where to find it!” This will create huge intrigue with her and you are almost guaranteed a response at the very least. Give it a try and good luck!

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This is one of the questions I get all the time!

“What kind of profile picture should I use, Derek?”

Listen closely because your Facebook or Myspace profile picture is one of the most IMPORTANT features of your profile… girls simply won’t even respond to you if you have that really, really creepy picture. You know the one I’m talking about… those webcam pictures… the ones where the guy is just sitting there in front of the computer smiling? That’s pretty much telling the world… “I’m a creep.”

Just as bad is a photo where you are flexing your pecs in the hope that she will be impressed by this. Have you ever seen a guy take his shirt off in a night club? What did you think of him? EXACTLY!!!

Give me a minute and I’ll tell you about a photo that WILL get you laid… or at least get a phone number of that really hot chick you’ve been wanting for forever on Facebook or Myspace!

This is what I like to call the “Prop Picture”.

Do you have a picture of you standing beside something really cool? I mean really, REALLY cool.

Here… this is a pic that I used that got me SO MANY responses from hot girls. It was a picture of me standing in front of the Eiffel Tower with a really beautiful girl.

Here’s why this picture is so great…

First, it conveys high value – you’re showing that you love to travel and that you have the MONEY to travel. It shows that you’re adventurous and interesting.
Secondly, and most importantly, it shows that you’re pre-selected by having a beautiful woman stand beside you. This will immediately give off a positive impression.

Ever heard of THAT tip before? If you associate yourself with beautiful-looking women (even if they’re just friends!) you will photo of me in front of the Eiffel with one of my gorgeous, stunning girlfriends got me laid countless times. You don’t have to have something as extravagant as that, though… maybe you have a picture of you surfing or maybe even just playing the guitar or taking part in some other cool hobby. Another one of my faves is one where I’m standing up on one elbow because i’m a break dancer…I do realize though that not everybody can do this.

Of course there’s much more to it than just having a good profile picture… you need to know how to TALK to girls online as well.

That’s why in my program, online pick up secrets I lay out, step-by-step, everything you need to know and do to get those GORGEOUS girls on your Facebook/MySpace friends list in bed with you!

In online pick up secrets you will be able to cut and paste messages to scores of girls at a time any you will be guaranteed a date with 1 out of every 3 at least. Promise!

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Advice on the best dating sites online.

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There are a number of dating websites available to both general and specialist groups. Dating sites like amatuermatch, americansingles, and itjustlunch deal with thousands of profiles worldwide, hosting millions of members looking for love. Other online dating sites, like catholicmingle, ChristianCafe, blackSingles, and more, concentrate purely on a single religion, ethnicity, or age group. I do not advocate selecting just a single specialist dating site at first because you really are putting all your eggs in one basket, but if you don’t find what you’re looking for on a general dating site, a specialty dating site may be just good enough.

Security and Privacy Policy
Most dating sites have security and privacy policies and those that don’t are best avoided. By security we mean that they vet their members, they have policies and terms of use allowing people to be removed, or expelled from the site. They may have protective measures in place to ensure that the members dating online will not face any serious annoyance when logged in. On top of that some sites will register with data protection registrars and have a strict password system protecting accounts.

The best dating sites are aware particularly of women’s issues when dating online and will have a positive policy allowing women members to block those who they do not wish to communicate with, without repercussions.

Email Addresses.
Email should always be a private affair when dating online and the top dating sites usually keep your email within the site itself so that you have a protected in box but messages are never transmitted to your real world address. Instant messaging is increasingly seen as very important when dating online and allows instant communication with other members who are online at that time. This facilitates easy and private chats which can lead to positive relationship building.

Chat rooms
Chat rooms don’t occur on all dating websites but we see them as very useful for new daters and socialites who love to chat to many people at once. It is a good way of getting your typing and chat skills on top form. The best sites allow you to use a different name in a chat room to your regular profile to maintain anonymity levels. The other communication feature we now see increasingly is voicemail. Apart from being able to communicate online it is very useful to be able to leave voice messages and listen too without ever giving out a real phone number.

Here are some key things I believe you should always keep in mind when attempting to use the Internet for romance.

- Use an online service that allows you to post more than one photo for free
- Use an agency that is appealing and relaxed and suits your style
- Do find an online agency that offers email and messaging that are onsite
- Use an Internet dating specialist firm, not some extra which is an afterthought
- Do not use completely free agencies as you don’t often get top quality services
- Use an agency that allows free profile registration for all members
- Use a professional introduction agency, one that has been established.
- Don’t use agencies that insist on sending emails to your own inbox
- Use a dating services agency that has a secure ecommerce system
- The best Internet dating specialists offer you great customer service
- Look for online agencies that provide detailed dating articles and advice
- Make sure that the search facilities are fast and suit your style of searching
- Some of the best dating agencies allow payment in different currencies
- International websites usually have the best variety of member profiles
- Make sure that the online agency includes their full address and phone number
- Find an Internet agency that is willing to chat about any issues you may have
- Use an agency that offers different methods of secure payment
- It is essential that you can Browse & Find profiles for free

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It is a little known fact that there are very successful treatments for the fear of vomiting, and many sufferers are simply not aware of this and go through many years of torment. Indeed some sufferers are not even aware that their “problem” is actually a well-recognized medical condition.

The fear of vomiting receives very little attention when compared to other phobic conditions, and this is despite it being the fifth most common phobia. The condition can dominate a sufferer’s life and prevent them from carrying out many everyday activities. Some women will even avoid getting pregnant, despite having a longing for a baby just because they are afraid of morning sickness. Other people might avoid leaving the house for fear of either being sick themselves or coming into contact with vomit. This can severely limit a sufferers life, meaning that huge lifestyle decisions are often avoided.

Very often, emetophobia can disguise other phobias. For example, someone who is afraid of flying may actually fear being sick whilst flying. Claustrophobia and other social phobias are also examples of conditions where the actual fear may be of vomiting, but this often only ever comes out during therapy sessions where they are being counseled for another condition when they really need treatments for fear of vomiting.

The majority of sufferers are adult women, but people of all ages and both sexes can be emetophobic. Some have the fear constantly at the forefront of their minds whilst for others, the fear might surface during times of stress or it might hide for years until something happens which subconsciously triggers a reaction.

Very often, the seeds of emetophobia are sown in childhood, following a traumatic incident or an irrational childhood fear. very often though, sufferers cannot pinpoint a time when emetophobia developed. In childhood, there have been incidents of children being made to either eat solid foods when they are simply not ready or being “overfed” when full-both of which can bring on emetophobia.

What is known though, is that the condition is completely curable and this takes far less time than many people imagine. Once you get to the root cause of your emetophobia, with the correct help, the condition can be successfully treated using very simple techniques.

If you would like to see details of a highly specialized course which is aimed only at emetophobics, then please visit natural emetophobia cure. The reason for the success of this course is the fact that it only concentrates on this condition rather than, like many similar courses, attempting to be a solution for all phobic conditions. Good emeophobia treatment is highly specialized and designed only to help this condition rather than the multitude of other phobias.

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During the past forty years, Catholics have not been educated in their faith. Many Catholic adults have high school diplomas, bachelors, masters, and even PhD’s in business, science, medicine, etc. But, unfortunately, they have a second or third grade education in their Catholic faith! This is so sad, because when we are ignorant of our Catholic faith and the history behind it, we are vulnerable to having what faith we do have destroyed by someone of equal or greater ignorance, but perhaps greater persuasive powers. In other words, they may have more faith in their error, than we do in our truth. Remember, the Catholic faith contains the fullness of divinely revealed truth! So, what should we do? We should educate ourselves by studying all our adult lives. There are many good Catholic Audio files available on the Internet that you can download and listen to. There are many good Catholic websites available that can offer you solid Catholic teaching, such as ,Catholic Audio Resources, where you can begin to “catch up” on all the Catholic doctrine and history you have missed out on.

Take me, for example. Until I was in my early thirties, I didn’t really know my Catholic faith that well. I thought I did, but when I actually began studying, I discovered I knew very little! In fact, even today, I realize that there is SO much to learn, that I can study all my life and never know it all. I guess that’s why the Pope has his own personal theologian to help him when he does research and study. Yes, the Pope studies the Catholic faith, too!

Some folks learn better by reading, some learn better by hearing. The Bible says that faith comes by hearing the Word of God. That’s why I think audio might be a little better than reading for this sort of thing. That’s why I recommend that you take a little time and download some of the audio (.MP3) files from the site I recommended and similar sites.

If you have an .MP3 player or an iPod, these type files would easily play on it. If you don’t, and have a PC with a CD burner, you can easily create music CD’s with the .MP3 files. You can do like I do and play the CD’s in your car’s CD player on the way to work and back. (I live approximately 67 miles from work, and this is a great time to listen to a good Catholic lecture on some topic or other.) I was especially interested in the talks on personal conversions to Christ and the Catholic Church. I was also interested in the history of the Catholic Church by Steve Kellmeyer. All these audio files are orthodox, i.e., faithful to Catholic teaching. We need to be very careful what we read and to what we listen in this day and age, because there has been a strong attack on the Catholic Church from without AND from within. To be able to discern what is truly Catholic teaching and what is not is of utmost importance. And I believe that the Catholic Audio files are as orthodox as you can find!

God bless!

Steve Bergeron

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How the hell do you turn on a girl… SEXUALLY… through instant messenger interactions?

Sure, some girls just don’t get the whole “cyber” thing… but how do you know if you’ve got one that does?

Let me teach you how you can figure out if a girl is D.T.C. (Down To Cyber)… and let me teach you how you can change her into a girl that’s receptive to “cybering”.

Then… get her phone number and invite her over for some REAL sex…

First and foremost… do not attempt these methods unless you’ve built enough trust and attraction FIRST… you need to receive at least seven online indicators of interest before trying any of this. And furthermore, these tactics work best for girls that you know in real life already…And by indicators of interest I mean the lol’s which they give out to people they like, smiley or winkey faces. If she asks you questions about what you are doing etc. A very powerful way of finding out would be to ask her a qualifying question. By this I mean that you are testing her to see if she matches your standards and showing that you are picky, believe me she will not want to disappoint. For example, if you like sporty women, you could message something like “do you go to the gym a lot?”. The best reply you could possibly get would be something like “I do go sometimes, but I’m planning on going a lot more”. Online Pick up secrets will explain this all in great depth.

Let me tell you now about the power of the “;)” emoticon. No, that isn’t a typo… it’s the WINK emoticon. The careful and precise usage of this can get you LAID, buddy! So listen up…

After a few minutes of attraction building, say something like…

“Be right back… don’t miss me TOO much… ;)”

If you’ve built enough trust and if she feels like she knows you well, she’ll be receptive to this. If not, she’ll just say something like… “lol. Ok.”

If you get that response, don’t move on…

However, if you do get a response that’s positive… when you come back, say something like… “So you missed me, huh? You know you love me. ;)”

A lot of women will respond to this in a very sexual manner if you’ve built enough trust.

After, if the response is positive, which it should be… keep escalating! Start talking about sex… not sex between you two… but sex in general. Be descriptive.

Did you know that women generally LOVE reading about sex? Why do you think all those romance novels really get some women going…?

It’s because she fills in the blanks with her imagination. Escalating a woman through text message or instant message is a lot easier than you think…

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Regarding Babylon, the message in the book of Revelation is not “Come out of her, you Pagans.” The message is: “Come out of her, my people” (Revelation 18:4). The message would not be appropriate unless God’s people had a presence in Babylon at the time of the end. Why should you come out of Babylon?

“…that you be not partakers of her sins, and that you receive not of her plagues” (same verse).

“For her sins have reached unto heaven, and God has remembered her iniquities” (Revelation 18:5).

“Babylon has been a golden cup in the LORD’s hand, that made all the earth drunken: the nations have drunken of her wine; therefore the nations are mad” (Jeremiah 51:7).

While the City of Babylon will be a specific place on this earth, Babylon itself is a system that girdles the globe. It is the international control system in opposition to God. It was set up like that from the beginning when Nimrod established Babel, the seed that became Babylon.

“…Nimrod the mighty hunter before the LORD” (Genesis 10:9).

The King James “before” is from the Hebrew “paniym”, which means, among other things, “in front of.” Nimrod placed himself in front of God, ahead of God, in essence, against God. Nimrod’s system, Babylon, as refined by his wife, Semiramis, became the control system opposed to the Creator God.

To understand Babylon, we must understand Babel, the tower upon which the system was founded. It was more than just a tower; it was the start of the control system against God. It has evolved into being the control system we see in today’s modern world: control of religion (faith control), control of media (opinion control), control of education (mind control), control of commerce (trade control), control of banking (money control), control of medications and prescriptions and medical services (drug control).

How did Babylon get started? Before there was Babylon, there was Babel. After the flood, God made a promise that he would not destroy all flesh in a flood (Genesis 9:13-15). However, many of the people were still fearful. Nimrod took advantage of this fear. Josephus describes what happened after the flood. At first many were reluctant to come down from the mountains, fearing the possibility of a future worldwide flood. This occurred in spite of a direct promise from God. When the majority of people did come down from the mountains, they dwelt in the plane of Shinar, a section of territory that would comprise what was later known as a precinct of Babylon. It was a good land for farming and was filled with blessings from the ground. However a leadership arose that rejected the idea that the prosperity was a blessing from God. They believed that their own power was the proper cause of their plentiful conditions and that they were therefore under no obligation to obey God.

It was Nimrod, grandson of Ham, who incited them to exhibit such an affront and contempt of God. His philosophy was, “If you submit to God, you are a coward.” It was a philosophy of expanding self-confidence into self-worship. The building of the tower of Babel was supervised by the master mason, Nimrod. Its purpose was not just to reach into heaven (the sky). Its purpose was also to provide a place to go when the future flood arrived to drown the world. Nimrod worked on the fear people had of the flood, a flood that never came. Fear was (and is) a tool of Babylon.

The tower was constructed of burnt brick, cemented together with mortar consisting of bitumen, which made it water-proof. Fearful that other places might not be as fruitful and plentiful as Shinar, the majority of the people participated in the building of the tower. Nimrod controlled the people by the tool of fear. However, the tower-building project came to an abrupt end when God confounded their language and scattered them over the face of the earth (Genesis 11:7-9). So all the people who were participating in the building of the tower became unable to communicate with each other and, as a result, became scattered. After this time, did anyone come to inhabit the land of Shinar? Yes. Hestiaeus mentions the priests of Jupiter (a false god) took sacred vessels and came to Shinar.

Nimrod’s great uncle, Shem, is also known as Sem. He is the father of all Semitic people. According to profane history Shem killed Nimrod, cut him up, and sent pieces of his body all over the inhabited world.

This violent act had the effect of terrorizing Semiramis, Nimrod’s widow, to the extent that she turned the Babel system into a mystery, a secret system known only to the inner circle. It became the Babylonian mysteries. And today Babylon is a mystery to the majority of the world’s population who have been victimized by it. Modern education and media are, for the most part, Godless and secular.

“And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient” (Romans 1:28).

This is one reason why so many in the media and in education have lost the ability to maintain logical and reasonable trains of thought. Their degeneracy has developed to the level in which their mind has become reprobate. Some newcomers have not reached that point but they are told they must get with the program or get out. After years of getting with the program, they, too, lose the associative abilities one would ordinarily expect of reporters and educators.

Christ did not institute vows of poverty for himself or for anyone else. On the other hand he did not direct that his way (Christianity) should be run like a business, complete with territorial imperatives, the spirit of competition, and an overbearing chain-of-command to lord it over the so-called “laity”.

Many demons have the effect of placing an extra level of deception into the mind of the idolater. For example, at the end there will be frog-like demons that will influence the rulers of the world to believe that they can actually fight against Christ (Revelation 16:13-14). There is an equation at work here. The more idolatry a person is involved in, the greater capacity they have for self-deception.

“Take heed to yourself that you be not snared by following them, after that they be destroyed from before you; and that you inquire after their gods, saying, How did these nations serve their gods? Even so will I do likewise” (Deuteronomy 12:30).

At first glance, this may seem like someone simply going after other gods and using idols as an aid to worship other gods. The next verse makes it clearer. You shall not apply this to the true God!

“You shall not do so unto the LORD your God…” (Deuteronomy 12:31).

Bible Answers

Bible Questions

Sources:

Elder, Wily, Babylon, Control of Religion, ? 2000 Wily Elder, AFSS Corporation, Ocala, FL, United States

Hislop, Alexander, The Two Babylons, ? 1916, The Loizeaux Brothers, p. 6,63,64, Neptune, NJ, United States

Josephus, Complete Works of Josephus, ? 1960 Kregel Publications, page 30, Grand Rapids, MI, United States

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Do you think you know how to impress most beautiful women and sleep with them at the same night or on the second date like a real guy gets girl? If you do know, then stop reading here and go get some hot dates. For the rest, I suggest you read on.

The starting point is that we need to look is where to find those girls who we want to attract.

Few reliable and working chances are: girls working in a bar on a period when there is low number of visitors, and shes not busy. Girls sitting in the restaurant, making party in your house and get some friends or go to the nightclub.

I make an example that is based on the nightclub, because it is usually the most common way to approach girls you don’t know.

So how to attract those hot girls?

First, find a girl, or a girls who do not have a boyfriends with them. How can you recognize this?

Well, If the girl is together her boyfriend, they are calm, they are not having much fun, they just sit or dance. I think you know where I’m heading here. She might be even with the exhausted look.

If she is with a person she has just met, then they are having fun, laughing etc. Then there is nothing wrong to go into the conversation even if you are a stranger. You can steal all the good emotions that the other guy made her feel. Then ask: ” how do you guys know each other?” The girl will tell you right away if he is just a friend or someone she met in the club.

Be sure she will have some other female friends with her in the club. Girls newer come alone in most cases. It is better when you tell the girl after a little fun and sparking intro conversation to meet all her friends. You could say something like this; ” hey, why don’t you introduce me your friends, I’m sure they are interesting”. Tell it with fun and friendly tone of voice.

So you see her female friends, and tell a little “girl story”, about dressing etc. You can read how to tell this attracting story from my blog, but lets move on. The “girl story” is very, very effective to make all the girls in the group to come on “your side”. You want her friends to know you, rather than seeing them dragging her away from you, because they came together and the don’t know you.

The next big step here is to move on with the girl to sit down together. What you need to do is to let her friends to know that you two are leaving to different corner. You can say like: “hey guys I’m going to steal your girl for a moment, we are going to sit down back there, you can join us any moment if you like, but we will sitting back there”. They’ll be like ok, whatever, that’s ok. The other girls will not come to sit there, because they just need to know that she is safe.

What you just did was eliminating a huge constraint, and the other girls feel safe now if she is with you. You have also gained a social proof from her friends, which is a huge advantage if you want to move on with her and keep going with attraction.

So you now have her sitting down with you. She has seen your ability to communicate with other people and she feels comfortable but she is exited to see what’s going to happen next. You don’t think about how to attract girls in this moment, you think rather how to escalate the situation, because by now you have already used “how to attract girls” methods, and she is “on”.

This is where the game is going to get desicive. You tell her something like this: “you know, I though at the beginning that you were nosy, but now you seem pretty cool to me”. She will be like what, all the other guys like me from the first look, but this guy is totally different… this is the time when you have opened the door for the “back stage”. And soon she will be all over you If you go on with teasing her, busting her etc.

So how to attract girls in dating dating seeking? Now you know a first and very desicive part of it. You know how to pick suitable girl, how to get her sitting down with you safely and how to open the “back door” where most guys never get. This is the beginning, and there is lot of stuff to go on with. But the first moments are the most important, If you were able her attraction for once, you will have more options to move on and the chances are huge.

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